Pathological Lying Symptoms
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Understanding pathological lying symptoms will help you identify if someone you know is suffering from this type of lying disorder. Pathological liars are addicted to lying. They will lie even when there is no personal gain, and this is why the symptoms of a pathological liar are not always clear.
Identifying a Pathological Liar
To identify if someone is a pathological liar, you will need to know a little about his/her history as well as current psychological stability. These are two of the biggest indicators of a potential lying problem.
History
Knowing the history of a pathological liar will help you see patterns in his/her lying. Some people will only lie about the present, but others make up a completely new life for themselves. For example, if you know your friend from grade school, you probably know a lot about his or her childhood. If this friend tells people that he/she had a disadvantaged home life but you know for a fact he/she didn't, you can begin to suspect he/she is a pathological liar.
Psychological Stability
Psychological stability is the other factor in determining if someone is a pathological liar. Many people habitually lie due to a mental illness such as bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder or depression. Many mental illness sufferers have misconceptions about what is reality. Their distorted perceptions make it difficult for them to understand what is false and true. Not to say that all individuals who suffer from mental illness lie unknowingly, many lie so they don't suffer repercussions from care givers and psychiatric care providers.
Checklist of Pathological Lying Symptoms
Pathological lying is not a psychological disorder, and it has no documented list of symptoms. However, pathological liars share the following common behaviors, situations and illnesses.
Suffering from Mental Illness
A mental illness such as personality disorder, depression or bipolar disorder is a common pathological lying symptom.
Seeks Attention
Individuals who want to have center stage wherever they are may have to make up stories to capture people's interest. These types of people crave an audience and get a high off it, and this leads them to lie more.
Stories Are Unbelievable
Almost everyone over exaggerates stories sometimes, but a pathological liar does it most of the time. If you find yourself with your jaw falling every time he/she tells you a story, it's probably because it's not true.
Defensive When Questioned
When you approach the pathological liar about something said, he/she is insulted and denies the lie.
Nothing Ever Goes Wrong
A pathological liar may never admit that life is difficult. Instead, he/she will either only discuss the happy times or make up stories to replace unfortunate events.
Life Is Always Bad
Someone who is always suffering from a different illness or always a victim of something either has bad luck or is a pathological liar. Just as some pathological liars will lie about the good in their life, some will make up bad things that happen to them for the attention.
Increase Self-Esteem
People with low self-esteem are more likely to demonstrate pathological lying symptoms because they are trying to make themselves feel better about how they look, their accomplishments and what they have in life.
Liars Only Get So Far
Pathological liars are good at lying, but it will usually only get them so far. After a while, many people will begin to see through them and realize that they are not as trustworthy as they seemed. Until you get to this point of realization when dealing with a liar, listen warily and double check before acting on anything he/she says..
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Comments
Karen,
The decision about whether to stay with your boyfriend or not is a personal one. You can't make him get help if he doesn't want to admit that he has a problem. The better question may be why you want to have someone in your life who has a problem being truthful? A counselor can help you sort things out in your mind so that you can make the right decision for you.
Jodee Redmond LoveToKnow Editor
-- Contributed by: JC RedmondI think my boyfriend is all of the above.. the symptoms that are set out on this page, are HIM in one.. i cant believe it...I dont know what to do about it, whenever i have tried to confront him about the many things he has lied about.. he gets all upset nd insulted, defensive..gosh.. How do u manage a life with a person like this? do you turn your back on them or try to help.. i would love to get some feed back...
-- Contributed by: karenDelilah,
A therapist can help you decide if, when, and how to reveal your past behavior to the people in your life. They can also make suggestions to help you deal with your guilt.
Jodee Redmond LoveToKnow Editor
-- Contributed by: JC Redmond
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