Alcoholics Anonymous
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Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is a support group for men and women who want to stop drinking. Members of AA come from all walks of life and meet with one another in the effort to get and stay sober.
About Alcoholics Anonymous
Alcoholics Anonymous was founded in 1935 by a New York stockbroker and an Ohio surgeon who both had serious drinking problems. The two men started the group to stay sober themselves and to help others who suffered from alcohol addiction.
Over the years, the organization grew rapidly. Current membership numbers over 2,000,000 in 150 different countries. Members are made up of individuals who have one common goal in mind: stop drinking.
Anyone can become a member of AA. There are no membership fees or dues required. All prospective members need is a desire to dedicate themselves to remaining sober one day at a time.
Members must also promise to protect the identity of their Fellowship. Anonymity is a firm tradition in the program, which seeks to govern itself by principles, not personalities. AA membership is never disclosed to anyone, guaranteeing the confidentiality that many members desire as they pursue their own private path to recovery.
AA Meetings
AA meetings are designed to allow both members and non-members to come together and share their experiences with alcoholism. Though all meetings operate on the premise of open sharing, joining in the discussion is completely voluntary. You will never be forced to speak during an AA meeting, nor will you be harshly judged in any way for words spoken or unspoken.
There are many different types of meetings within the AA program, but most fall into one of the following categories:
- Open Meetings
- Closed Meetings
- Mixed Meetings (men only, women only, etc.)
- Speaker, Big Book Study, Step Study, or Discussion Meetings
- Clubhouse or Church Meetings
To learn more about Alcoholics Anonymous meetings or to locate a meeting place, check out one of the following links:
12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous
The heart of the AA recovery program is the 12 Step Method. This proven method allows alcoholics to work through their addiction and walk down the path of recovery one step at a time. Those who have completed the steps will find other ways of developing a satisfying life without alcohol.
The 12 steps are:
- We admitted we were powerless over our addiction, that our lives had become unmanageable.
- We came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
- We made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
- We made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
- We admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
- We’re entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
- We humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
- We made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
- We made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
- We continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
- We seek through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understand Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
- Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we try to carry this message to other addicts and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
Comments
Natalie,
Many people believe that an alcoholic or other addict won't seek help until they hit rock bottom. You can't make him stop drinking; he is responsible for his own behavior. You can encourage him to see a doctor for the stomach pain and the lesions. Offer to take him to the appointment, and make sure the doctor knows how much he is drinking.
Instead of focusing on getting your brother to change, start with changing yourself. Al-Anon offers support for people who have someone in their life who has a drinking problem. You already know that allowing him to live in your home without working isn't doing him any good. Here is the website for Al-Anon: http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/english.html
I hope this helps. Take care.
Jodee Redmond LoveToKnow Editor
-- Contributed by: JC RedmondI think my brother has a serious drinking problem. He drinks 2 liters of wine daily and doesnt think he has a problem. I have confronted him about it and he denies it. He has no job, is living on my couch(which is causing problems with my husband and I), and his kids want nothing to do with him. Our mother thinks it has been going on for years.. How do I get him to admitt he has a problem, and get him to seek treatment or go to AA meetings. He has developed these lesions all over his skin, has stomach pain often, and thinks it is all due to stress. I worry about his health and need to get him into something. I need help please! Our mom suggested your organization, and I know that our church holds AA meetings, but I don't know how to GET him to go there! He is 44, homeless, jobless, and in denial!
Please help!
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