Alcoholics Anonymous

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Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is a support group for men and women who want to stop drinking. Members of AA come from all walks of life and meet with one another in the effort to get and stay sober.

The membership of AA is made up of individuals who have one common goal in mind: stop drinking.

About Alcoholics Anonymous

Alcoholics Anonymous was founded in 1935 by a New York stockbroker and an Ohio surgeon who both had serious drinking problems. The two men started the group to stay sober themselves and to help others who suffered from alcohol addiction.

Over the years, the organization grew rapidly. Current membership numbers over 2,000,000 in 150 different countries. Members are made up of individuals who have one common goal in mind: stop drinking.

Anyone can become a member of AA. There are no membership fees or dues required. All prospective members need is a desire to dedicate themselves to remaining sober one day at a time.

Members must also promise to protect the identity of their Fellowship. Anonymity is a firm tradition in the program, which seeks to govern itself by principles, not personalities. AA membership is never disclosed to anyone, guaranteeing the confidentiality that many members desire as they pursue their own private path to recovery.

AA Meetings

AA meetings are designed to allow both members and non-members to come together and share their experiences with alcoholism. Though all meetings operate on the premise of open sharing, joining in the discussion is completely voluntary. You will never be forced to speak during an AA meeting, nor will you be harshly judged in any way for words spoken or unspoken.

There are many different types of meetings within the AA program, but most fall into one of the following categories:

  • Open Meetings
  • Closed Meetings
  • Mixed Meetings (men only, women only, etc.)
  • Speaker, Big Book Study, Step Study, or Discussion Meetings
  • Clubhouse or Church Meetings

To learn more about Alcoholics Anonymous meetings or to locate a meeting place, check out one of the following links:

12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous

The heart of the AA recovery program is the 12 Step Method. This proven method allows alcoholics to work through their addiction and walk down the path of recovery one step at a time. Those who have completed the steps will find other ways of developing a satisfying life without alcohol.

The 12 steps are:

  1. We admitted we were powerless over our addiction, that our lives had become unmanageable.
  2. We came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
  3. We made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
  4. We made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
  5. We admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
  6. We’re entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
  7. We humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
  8. We made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
  9. We made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
  10. We continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
  11. We seek through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understand Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
  12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we try to carry this message to other addicts and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

Is it time to reach out to Alcoholics Anonymous? Let LTK's survey Am_I_an_Alcoholic help you take stock of your current drinking level and how it may be affecting your life.



 


Comments

Patty,

The decision to stop helping a family member is a very personal one. Can you and your siblings talk and come to some kind of a joint decision about the best way to proceed? Does the hospital have a social worker on staff that you can talk to about options available to your brother? If someone in the family is willing to manage your brother's finances for him, you may want to look at legal options so that someone will make sure that is rent is paid and he isn't giving his ATM card to someone. Al-Anon should also be able to give you some guidance.

Jodee Redmond LoveToKnow Editor

-- Contributed by: JC Redmond

my brother, 53, is an alcoholic, and has been getting worse year by year. He has been to rehab centers. Most recently he started drinking the day after he come home. He is now in the hospital, brought by a sponsor who feared he would commit suicide. This sponsor, or friend, thinks we should support him financially, as he is alone, behind in his rent and on disability (the last check supposedly consumed by a girl he trusted with his atm card) He has been helped, financially and psychologically over the years. My mother is over 80. HOw much more can she take of this. NOne of the siblings live in the area, and quite frankly, we don't have much hope for him. Can anyone give me advice on this? Should we give him money? Or should we just let him go? I know he can't help it, but at what point do we say enough?

-- Contributed by: patty

Natalie,

Many people believe that an alcoholic or other addict won't seek help until they hit rock bottom. You can't make him stop drinking; he is responsible for his own behavior. You can encourage him to see a doctor for the stomach pain and the lesions. Offer to take him to the appointment, and make sure the doctor knows how much he is drinking.

Instead of focusing on getting your brother to change, start with changing yourself. Al-Anon offers support for people who have someone in their life who has a drinking problem. You already know that allowing him to live in your home without working isn't doing him any good. Here is the website for Al-Anon: http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/english.html

I hope this helps. Take care.

Jodee Redmond LoveToKnow Editor

-- Contributed by: JC Redmond
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